[Paradox]

While not wanting to brag, I will say that early on, I figured out that for women, it was much more in the brain. A bit of time invested can pay of BIG. One can get them extremely aroused without even touching them, but I wont get into details.

I always leave them smiling, or rather sleeping. I dont know why most men act like this was such a mystery. I think its just laziness on their part.

[Conservatrix]

Your methods are intriguing.

And you are absolutely right about lack of patience.

Add: creativity, interest, sensitivity, sense of humor, gentleness, sensuality, and perhaps..... love???

[papertyger]

While not wanting to brag .... I always leave them smiling, or rather sleeping. I dont know why most men act like this was such a mystery. I think its just laziness on their part.

Don't worry we can tell you're not married.

[iconoclast]

I think its just laziness on their part.

I think it's dull wittedness.

It would seem obvious that:

1) Each partner's enjoyment of the act gratifys the other and directly leads to a more intense and satisfying experience.
2) If the object were a race to ejaculation why wouldn't the dullard stick to masterbation?

[judgeandjury]

One can get them extremely aroused without even touching them, but I wont get into details.

There's no need to go into details. Men have known about this and have been doing this for centuries.