Your methods are intriguing.
And you are absolutely right about lack of patience.
Add: creativity, interest, sensitivity, sense of humor, gentleness, sensuality, and perhaps..... love???
From the article:
"What this means is that deactivation, letting go of all fear and anxiety, might be the most important thing - even necessary - to have an orgasm."
Being in love, in a committed relationship, is definately a plus for this.
"Add: creativity, interest, sensitivity, sense of humor, gentleness, sensuality, and perhaps..... love???"
Love first - the rest follows naturally.
;^D