I just don't see the problem here; maybe I am missing something, but why not go to the home of the last person to see the girl alive? Time was of the essence, IMO.
people obviously are free to criticize whomever they see fit, but it boggles my mind how the BEREAVED ones are targeted for their behavior. Sure, i understand that the v d Sloots are beside themselves with worry over their son. no one can take that away from them. but if beth twitty, her husband and ex-husband, were to fly into a public fit of rage, tearing their hear, rending their clothes over the disappearance of their daughter and their frustration and fury at the lack of answers, i would not say a critical word. It is quite possible i would do the same in their position. again, i am not ADVOCATING that behavior, but it would require a total lack of empathy not to understand what would drive them to it.
I don't see anything wrong with it either. But could it not have waited until 7:00 in the morning, without spotlights shining in the windows and cars pulling up with police and people shouting for him to send his son out. This was NOT planned to be an amicable fact finding meeting, it was a threatening and menacing event.