I don't see anything wrong with it either. But could it not have waited until 7:00 in the morning, without spotlights shining in the windows and cars pulling up with police and people shouting for him to send his son out. This was NOT planned to be an amicable fact finding meeting, it was a threatening and menacing event.
And you know this HOW?
How do you know that she wasn't still alive at that very minute and every second counted?
Would you have preferred that Natalee's family just sit in Alabama, watch Fox News, and await the call from Aruban officials to come get their daughter's body?
Excuse me, just popped in and you have got my heart racing. You don't have kids, do you?