she left her group and got in a car with three men she didn't know while in a foreign country... who should we blame???
If she was murdered, blame the person who killed her.
Got to be her fault, she should have known death was just around the corner, just by getting in a CAR
Sheesssshhhhhhhh!
Gee maybe the guy(s) who killed her?? Every young person does something stupid at some time (with the exception of YOU?) There are predators out there just waiting/stalking for a stupid event. Sometimes they get "lucky" - sometimes they don't.
Some of us who were/are 'good girls', most would say 'smart', and led well protective lives at home did some really stupid things when we were 18. My girlfriend from high school and I have discussed a couple of times something we did in which we think/feel something bad probably would have happened (to make a long story short - -we got in a car w 2 guys in Denver that we didn't know and luckily there were a couple of other guys at the place they took us). Unfortunately, when a person is in their teens/early twenties, they think they're infallible, are too trusting, are too naive, and/or nothing bad will happen to *me*. There but for the grace of God.....
I remember being very naive when I was that young. There were a few times when I was really in dangerous situations but G-d kept me. She probably thought she was safe, these guys are young like me and harmless...... poor thing.