I never said that "tolerance" was a virtue, it is the multiculture crowd that repeats this mantra. I will accept that tolerance should be used in so far as commiting criminal acts against people with diffeernt beliefs.
As to just saying no? At some age even you were vulnerable. The homosexual predator is pretty much always ready for new experiences.
And as for the "maybe your anti homosexual feelings are really latent homosexualism, homophobic etc", forget about it. Those are also tools of the homosexual activist, of which I now believe you are one. I have said all I intend to on this thread.