Flash forward 5 years to now when the boy is 12/13 and in middle school. If something is not done now, he will be a holy terror and expelled before he gets to high school.
Thanks so much for the advice. She had a conference today and then we discussed it together. She has a healthy attitude, but it is hard. This summer she is really going to work on it, and her ex is very supportive too.
Freepers are the greatest!