That robs the attention the wife deserves.
You are right, I don't know him, he doesn't know me, but porn has the same initial effect on all relationships. Sure, he says his wife enjoys him watching. I have seen too many relationships go down the tubes because of it. NO matter how much is watched. and yes, I am a Marriage Counselor
Well, it seems to me that you're just getting way to personal. Obviously you don't agree. We'll just have to leave it at that.
Hang in there, Damien. You are arguing well.
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Every time one of these threads start, one of the porn-defenders says, predictably, that if wives and girlfriends were more sexually willing poor porn-addict wouldn't be forced (sob) to turn to porn.
It's exactly the opposite. When a man becomes addicted to porn he pushes away his wife/girlfriend, is cold and rejecting toward her, and regards her as competing with his compliant sex-partners on the Internet. He has to let her know she is second-best.
The great gals on the Internet don't sh!t or snore or ask you to go out for groceries or expect you tyo listen to their problems; i.e. they expect you to be an adult in an adult relationship.
Porn addicts, or any addict, are incapable of the mutual caring of an adult relationship.