Hang in there, Damien. You are arguing well.
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Every time one of these threads start, one of the porn-defenders says, predictably, that if wives and girlfriends were more sexually willing poor porn-addict wouldn't be forced (sob) to turn to porn.
It's exactly the opposite. When a man becomes addicted to porn he pushes away his wife/girlfriend, is cold and rejecting toward her, and regards her as competing with his compliant sex-partners on the Internet. He has to let her know she is second-best.
The great gals on the Internet don't sh!t or snore or ask you to go out for groceries or expect you tyo listen to their problems; i.e. they expect you to be an adult in an adult relationship.
Porn addicts, or any addict, are incapable of the mutual caring of an adult relationship.
expect you = don't expect you
Nicotine addicts, caffeine addicts, gambling addicts? Are you preaching to the choir, or trying to make a case to people who will read what you write and actually think about it? If it's the latter, arguing in over-simplified absolutes isn't going to work.