If your definition of cheating is focsung attention away, how about all the attention so many women divert from their husbands in favor of the following:
1. Shopping;
2. Visiting friends and their kids constantly;
3. etc etc.
Most guys will agree with me that they, not the woman, if often the one with the short end of the stick in this department and are left hanging whewn it comes to their needs being met, not the other way around.
How many guys ever say the following:
1. I can't I have a headache (See a doctor)
2. I can't I'm tired (That's funny, you seemed fine running around the mall)
3. I can't I'm not in the mood (Can't you make a better excuse than that?)
4. I can't I'm busy. (Boy, updating your PDA really must be vital!)
And on and on and on. And you question me? Ha!
Ask a guy to be honest with you and he will tell you exactly the same as I am.
By the way, I never looked at woman with the hope or desire that she would help me cheat. I don't cheat, period.
I can guarrantee you if men gave thier women the attention they crave and deserve then you wouldn't find those excuses i.e. headache, tired, etc.
You really need to learn more about your woman. I see you think you have it figured out.
Justifying the sin with lame excuses is easy, after all, Adam blamed Eve for his sin.
Uhh...I'm a guy...my 14th anniversery is barely a month away, and I'm not agreeing with you. I still think you're rationalizing your choice of behaviors. If I were you, and I liked porn, I'd just admit it.