I can guarrantee you if men gave thier women the attention they crave and deserve then you wouldn't find those excuses i.e. headache, tired, etc.
You really need to learn more about your woman. I see you think you have it figured out.
Justifying the sin with lame excuses is easy, after all, Adam blamed Eve for his sin.
Ok, you're just getting silly now. I haven't agreed with chris1 much in this thread myself, but you're getting way out of your league by trying to tell him what he needs to do in his marriage. You don't know him, you don't know his wife, you don't know jack about the situation. You're getting waaaaaay to personal with the guy when you start talking about what he knows about "his woman".
We have a WINNER!