Hmmm, just hit me... Then you aren't looking at women in those porn videos or mags are you?
If your definition of cheating is focsung attention away, how about all the attention so many women divert from their husbands in favor of the following:
1. Shopping;
2. Visiting friends and their kids constantly;
3. etc etc.
Most guys will agree with me that they, not the woman, if often the one with the short end of the stick in this department and are left hanging whewn it comes to their needs being met, not the other way around.
How many guys ever say the following:
1. I can't I have a headache (See a doctor)
2. I can't I'm tired (That's funny, you seemed fine running around the mall)
3. I can't I'm not in the mood (Can't you make a better excuse than that?)
4. I can't I'm busy. (Boy, updating your PDA really must be vital!)
And on and on and on. And you question me? Ha!
Ask a guy to be honest with you and he will tell you exactly the same as I am.
By the way, I never looked at woman with the hope or desire that she would help me cheat. I don't cheat, period.
I think he meant with the intent to commit adultery with her.