My whole rotation in Psych in Medical School was with a gay Doc who was married and had children. He told me he and his wife had an agreement. The whole month was going to trunk fashion shows that served wine and cheese. A trip to a gay club with a cross dresser that asked me a very rude question in the bathroom. Plus the first thing I saw as I walked into the club was two guys 4 feet within the door doing a Monica. I was shocked. As you can tell I have never forgot it. I learned abosolutely nothing except about the gay lifestyle.
Gayness is a fashion, a license to indulge without retribution or recrimination, but most of all, especially today, a transitory condition.