[monday]

"Having no father is way better than having a father that you believe/KNOW doesn't love you."

How could you possibly know he doesn't love her? and what of her biological dad? I imagine she is excited to meet her real father as well. Wouldn't you be excited to meet the person who gave you half of your genetics?

What happens next depends on what type of people her two dads are. Some dads are great, some are not. That is fate and something no kid has control over. Hopefully at least one of her two dads will be great and will love and support her, but for you to assume that neither will love her seems rather pessimistic to me.

[najida]

Read everyone else's posts in this thread in regards to G....most see him as a selfish ass. And seeing the girl as being hurt.

Excited over meeting her 'real' dad? I don't think so. At 13, she is already in the hormonal rages and self-doubt, this ain't exactly good news.

The guy who she thought was her dad is sueing her mom for the money he spent on her...WOW! Gee, if that doesn't say 'I could not care less for you' than I don't know what does.

Personally, I don't see the happy ending you see. I see a lot of adults doing selfish things that end up hurting a kid.

Pessimism? No, just being a old lady whose seen too much :)