I will refer you to post number 161 to you, which I think is a most accurate statement.
If you read the official church doctrine ( of the United Methodist Church), homosexuality is specifically condemned. Your logic is tantamount to blaming the US for the actions of the 9th appeals court. If they outlaw the word God in the Pledge of Allegiance, we should all move to Mexico. Jumping to the Catholic Church is like jumping from the frying pan into the fire.
Good luck and may God bless you in your personal fight to save the UMC from the apostates.