[conserv13]

poofter is defined by his deviant sexual practices.

What if he has urges but does not act on them?

[Antoninus]

What if he has urges but does not act on them?

If I have the urge to kill you, but don't act on it, does that make me a murderer?

[ArrogantBustard]

"Urges" ... you mean "temptations to sin".

I respect anyone who suffers severe (or even minor) temptations to sin, and by the Grace of God overcomes those temptations.

In this particular case, I would say "not a poofter". Poofter is defined by deviant sexual practices ... that is, by flagrantly wallowing in the sin rather than resisting the temptation.