[conserv13]

If I have the urge to kill you, but don't act on it, does that make me a murderer?

That is different.

I am sexually attracted to women. In high school, even though I had not slept with any women yet, I was still heterosexual.

[Antoninus]

That is different. I am sexually attracted to women.

So? Is sexual attraction your complete identity? I assume you are attracted to women other than your wife on occassion? What keeps you from acting on those urges?