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Man Facing Execution Finds Romance ("Women Who Love Men Who Kill")
The Washington Post/AP ^ | April 16, 2005 | John Christoffersen

Posted on 04/16/2005 3:52:38 PM PDT by MisterRepublican

STAMFORD, Conn. - In Oklahoma, Susan Powers is known as a bright mathematician who created a Web site for a group that cares for abused animals.

In Connecticut, she is the mysterious woman who became romantically involved with serial killer and rapist Michael Ross.

Ross, who has confessed to raping and killing women in New York and Connecticut in the early 1980s, agreed last year to drop his appeals against the death penalty. His execution, scheduled for May 11, would be the first in New England in 45 years.

He and Powers, however, have rekindled a romance she had broken off in 2003. Powers has promised to marry him and move closer if he will fight his execution.

"The woman of my life who I love, who abandoned me, has come back into my life," Ross writes. "But now I must go and abandon her. And I hate that, because while I never hated her when she abandoned me, I fear that she will hate me and not be able to forgive me. And that I fear even more than the execution itself."

Their relationship is detailed in Ross' letters - decorated with hand-drawn hearts and flowers - and a deposition by Powers. The documents were part of six days of testimony that concluded last week before a judge who will decide if Ross is competent to give up his death row appeals.

Death row romance is not rare. Nationwide, about 23 percent of death row inmates had spouses in 2003, the most recent statistics available from the U.S. Justice Department. Others, like Ross, have girlfriends or boyfriends.

"They're certainly not unusual," said Sheila Isenberg, who interviewed dozens of women for her book, "Women Who Love Men Who Kill." "They're not crazy. The relationships fill their needs."

(Excerpt) Read more at washingtonpost.com ...


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; News/Current Events; US: Connecticut
KEYWORDS: michaelross
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1 posted on 04/16/2005 3:52:38 PM PDT by MisterRepublican
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To: MisterRepublican

Can I get an awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww?


2 posted on 04/16/2005 3:54:59 PM PDT by SmithL (Proud Submariner)
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To: MisterRepublican

"Why do the good girls always want the bad boys?"--Gwen Stefani


3 posted on 04/16/2005 3:55:15 PM PDT by RichInOC (Karol Jozef Wojtyla, May 18, 1920-April 2, 2005, R.I.P.)
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To: MisterRepublican
Well I do think they are crazy although I will admit they do not seem that uncommon.

I also can't understand why girls are attracted to guys like Tommy Lee or the guy Britney Spears married.

4 posted on 04/16/2005 3:55:22 PM PDT by yarddog
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To: MisterRepublican
Talk about desperate. Sheesh.
5 posted on 04/16/2005 3:56:14 PM PDT by Finger Monkey (H.R. 25, Fair Tax Act - A consumption tax which replaces the income tax, ss tax, death tax, etc.)
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To: MisterRepublican

Curious if death via execution or other means while imprisoned is an insurable event?


6 posted on 04/16/2005 3:56:42 PM PDT by kcar (The UNsucks.com)
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To: MisterRepublican
Women are attracted to psychopaths behind bars because a romance with one is warped and will never be consummated. A woman can have the heady thrill of being in love with a bad guy who exudes sexiness, danger, and strong violence from a distance. There's logic in such implausible romances. Evil guys are the ultimate retrosexuals.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
7 posted on 04/16/2005 3:58:53 PM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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I don't understand why such women wouldn't go get a retrosexual who's not evil, like a soldier. Then they can have their manly man and know that he's not a rapist and cold-blooded killer of innocent people.


8 posted on 04/16/2005 4:03:34 PM PDT by AQGeiger (Have you hugged your soldier today?)
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To: MisterRepublican

LOL, I guess marrying one of these bad boys has it's advantages, face it, these women will always know where their men are, LOL!


9 posted on 04/16/2005 4:03:50 PM PDT by rockabyebaby (If you're not part of the solution, YOU ARE the problem.)
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To: goldstategop

Hmmmm... but in the olden days, a woman could save a condemned man by marrying him... or at least it worked that way in that Jack Nicholson flick.


10 posted on 04/16/2005 4:04:10 PM PDT by ambrose (....)
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a group that cares for abused animals

How trite. Any woman (or man for that matter) who can find kinship with these kinds of animals has a serious disorder of his/her own worth. Like bugs to a bug light. ZAP!

11 posted on 04/16/2005 4:05:45 PM PDT by PistolPaknMama (Will work for cool tag line.)
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To: AQGeiger

Because they don't really want a relationship with a real man ... just the concept.


12 posted on 04/16/2005 4:06:11 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Will do laundry for food.)
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To: AQGeiger
True but the male psychopath is all testosterone. He's a living rebuke of the idea a man must be refined, gentle and kind to obtain a woman. And some women get drawn to a man who can kill for them - or at least appear to do so.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
13 posted on 04/16/2005 4:06:16 PM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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"They're not crazy.".

Yeah, it is perfectly sane for a woman to fall in "love" with a convicted rapist/murderer.


14 posted on 04/16/2005 4:07:17 PM PDT by MisterRepublican
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To: ambrose
Women have this fantasy that if they love a man enough, they can make him into Prince Charming. The problem is the fantasy runs head long into the reality that if the guy has a disposition where he's utterly incapable of showing love or affection, a woman's reform yearnings are all for naught.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
15 posted on 04/16/2005 4:09:12 PM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: Tax-chick

"I see," said the blind man. So you're saying that the inability of such a relationship to be "normal" prevents it from ever being anything more than starry-eyed infatuation with an illusion. And she can have that dreamy feeling without having to put energy into sustaining a working relationship, as would be required of her otherwise.

It actually makes perfect sense now.


16 posted on 04/16/2005 4:11:34 PM PDT by AQGeiger (Have you hugged your soldier today?)
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To: RichInOC

Stefani quote is thought-provoking. Not sure we're talking about such "good girls"!


17 posted on 04/16/2005 4:14:27 PM PDT by Terrell
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To: AQGeiger

That's pretty much what I was saying, yes. A real man in real life is real work. A "man" safely behind bars and on his way to the electric chair is, I guess, a substitute for romance novels, for some really messed up women.


18 posted on 04/16/2005 4:17:00 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Will do laundry for food.)
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To: AQGeiger
Its the appeal of prison romances. Its only the illusion of a relationship. Actually, its not so much a relationship as a parasitic co-dependency. The psychopath can't feel emotions and can never worry about any one else. For the bad guy, there's the rush of adrenaline in manipulating the deluded woman with promises of everlasting love and for the woman there's the sensation of being swept off her feet by a strong, protective man. The point is none of its real. Perhaps that's why we keep hearing of these romances between murderers and women desperately seeking the illusion of love.

(Denny Crane: "Sometimes you can only look for answers from God and failing that... and Fox News".)
19 posted on 04/16/2005 4:21:47 PM PDT by goldstategop (In Memory Of A Dearly Beloved Friend Who Lives On In My Heart Forever)
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To: MisterRepublican

That TOTALLY restores my Faith In Humanity. Excuse me while I go throw up my dinner. /sarcasm


20 posted on 04/16/2005 4:24:18 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (Save The Earth. It's The Only Planet With Chocolate.)
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