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> I think the use of "dirty words" indicates a poor vocabulary and inability to communicate.

Incorrect. Dirty words are just words, with more emotional connotation. Granted, some people don;t know how to utter a sentence without using them; this is not a sign of moral decaly but, as you suggest, a sign that they are not well educated. However, certain words and phrases are STAGGERINGLY effective at getting across emotional responses. Consider a few days ago, when I found I need to go in for surgery that will leave me scarred and in agony. I'm sorry, but "gosh" and "darn" just didn't cut it. Something a bit more colorful was called for.

Well, sorry that "darn" doesn't cut it for you. But I never hear foul language 'in context'. It just litters the conversation the way broken beer bottles litter a hiking trail - and with similar effect.

You only need stronger words if you use the less-strong ones frequently. I don't say "drat" often, but when I do it has the effect for me that the f-word has for some of my colleagues.

Foul language is like auditory smoking; do it all you like, but I'm not going to hang around while you do so.

Consider a few days ago, when I found I need to go in for surgery that will leave me scarred and in agony. I'm sorry, but "gosh" and "darn" just didn't cut it. Something a bit more colorful was called for.

Why don't you try words such as: "Thank you, Lord Jesus, for allowing me to live in a place that can provide great healthcare for my medical condition. May Your will be done through all of the days that Thou hast set aside for me".

Consider a few days ago, when I found I need to go in for surgery that will leave me scarred and in agony.

Hope everything comes out okay, Orion. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

Incorrect. Dirty words are just words, with more emotional connotation. Granted, some people don;t know how to utter a sentence without using them; this is not a sign of moral decaly but, as you suggest, a sign that they are not well educated. However, certain words and phrases are STAGGERINGLY effective at getting across emotional responses. Consider a few days ago, when I found I need to go in for surgery that will leave me scarred and in agony. I'm sorry, but "gosh" and "darn" just didn't cut it. Something a bit more colorful was called for.

Well, you could always have used "gee-willickers!" B-D

Seriously, you're in my prayers with your upcoming surgery.

Getting back to the subject at hand, I'm controlling my swearing more but I admit there are times I slip, like when the hood of a truck conks me in the head. I must admit one pass I give to all of this is to the movie "Smokey and the Bandit." Jackie Gleason's swearing as Sherriff Buford T. Justice was funny as heck, it just ain't the same when they edit it out.