[Miss Marple]

Our kids were just out of college. I grant you that a man in his late 30's would probably feel uncomfortable if the in-laws paid. That was not the case with us.

A wedding in the 80's or 200 grand would be far our of our budget. However, if I were Donld Trump or someone on that income level, I would probably not bat an eye.

It all depends on income level...don't judge parents paying a lot...they may have the money.

[freedumb2003]

Our kids were just out of college. grant you that a man in his late 30's would probably feel uncomfortable if the in-laws paid

That makes sense. I see you see my point.

It all depends on income level...don't judge parents paying a lot...they may have the money.

Sorry, but even if I married into a rich famuly, I would feel uncomfortable having them do it all.

But every case is different.