MACV, those are all valid questions ~ I'd particularly like to know about what our take should be when a member of the Church of St. Mattress wants to marry his couch.
They may be valid questions, but not directed at me. I don't believe in gay marriage, extraordinary gay rights, or mattress rights. On the other hand, if some state thinks it's ok to marry a mattress, and can somehow get that past it's people, good for that state. No other state should be required to honor that, however.
You folks are attempting to redirect the thrust of the thread, which has nothing to do with mattresses.