The deliberate misrepresenation of my comment will not cause me to change it or explain it. Read it with it's ORIGINAL INTENT or don't comment.
My apologies for misunderstanding.
I was only pointing out that people who have experience with abusers "know 'em when they see 'em."
They shouldn't be accused of feeling superior, for having that insight. They've learned an important lesson from a life experience they really would rather not have undergone.