I grew up on dirt bikes as well. I started on a Honda mini bike, a 50cc model with a centrifigul clutch. I kept that until I got an XR-75. Later I owned an XR-125, and an XR-250 as well.
My first street bike was actually a Honda Twinstar 185. I rode the wheels off of that thing, and actually rode it from Denver Colorado to St. Louis Missouri. At one time I even owned a Honda Rebel 450 in addition to a Harley Sportster I had at the time. The Rebel was a nice little bike, and it's a shame they dropped it and only kept the 250. So don't think I have anything against Honda, because I don't. I even plan to start my daughter off on a Rebel when she turns 15.
That being said, I love Harley-Davidons. They're great bikes, and not the kludges you seem to think they are, but that's ok. My current ride has faithfully carried me some 30,000 miles with nary a hiccup, and it'll only be two years old come July. I'm harder than hell on bike, and I make many long distance trips alone, so I wouldn't be riding a Harley if I didn't know it was reliable.
Really, I can love my ride and appreciate yours as well. I don't have to put yours down to make myself feel good about mine. Unfortunately a lot of riders of Jap bikes feel otherwise. Not that I haven't contributed to big bigotry myself, I know I have, I too have sinned. lol