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Playing God [Robert Schindler Yanks Plug on Own Mother]
Guardian Unlimited (The Guardian Online) ^ | Tuesday November 4, 2003 | Suzanne Goldenberg

Posted on 03/27/2005 1:30:00 PM PST by Gondring

For 13 years Terri Schiavo has been in a coma - with her husband, her parents, the Christian right and now the president's brother locked in a bitter struggle over her fate. This week could see a final decision on whether she lives or dies. Suzanne Goldenberg reports from Florida


The woman's eyes are open in the video. She slowly rolls her head along the pillow, keeping up a constant low moan, as a man's arm dangles a metallic balloon overhead. "Look over here, Terri," a male voice says. "Can you follow that at all?"

The medical community and Florida's courts are convinced that Terri Schiavo can't, and, indeed, that she will never be able to recapture even this degree of cognitive ability. So too is her husband, Michael Schiavo. Over the years, he has tried three times to remove her feeding tube.

But Terri's parents, Mary and Robert Schindler, say she can improve, and have collaborated with the Christian right in America to turn this very private tragedy into a national pro-life pageant. Using the internet, press and Christian radio and television shows, anti-abortion groups have turned Terri's catastrophic loss into a major political gain, expanding the parameters of the pro-life debate.

This week could provide the last act. After a decade of exhausting every legal measure - and all the furore the Christian right can rustle up - the Schindlers have arrived at the final round of their struggle with their son-in-law for control of Terri's destiny.

A judge is deliberating whether to strike down so-called "Terri's Law" - a last-minute reprieve pushed through the Florida legislature by the state governor and presidential brother, Jeb Bush, that forced the hospital to resume feeding Terri two weeks ago.

Terri's Law, condemned by civil libertarians, the legal and medical community, and queasy state legislators, was the Schindlers' last hope. If it fails, the feeding tube will be removed, and Terri will slowly starve to death.

None of this has penetrated through to Terri. In February 1990, aged 26, she suffered a heart attack, brought on by acute potassium shortage caused by bulimia. By the time the ambulance arrived, her brain had been deprived of oxygen for six minutes. She has remained in what doctors call a persistent vegetative state ever since. Her eyes are open, her limbs are contracted, she smiles and grunts occasionally, but without any sense of purpose, according to the majority medical opinion presented to the courts.

But even in that seemingly senseless form, Terri's parents were able to discern a remarkable power within their semi-comatose daughter. Over the years, as successive judges refused their demand to be put in control of Terri's destiny, the Schindlers have enlisted the support of the Christian right to challenge court verdicts that have gone in her husband's favour. In the process, they have turned her into an unwitting heroine for the pro-life movement, and a convenient foil for Governor Bush.

With a year to go before the 2004 elections, Brother Bush has been keeping a weather eye out for causes that would mobilise the pro-life movement. Earlier this year, he outraged legal opinion by intervening to prevent a severely disabled woman, who had been raped in a state institution, from obtaining an abortion. Terri's case has proved as enticing a cause - and the Schindlers are extremely cooperative.

From their rented camper van across the road from the hospice, they have presided over prayer vigils and power rallies, pumping up the emotions in the campaign to keep their daughter alive by smuggling out videos of Terri in her bed, and making them available on the internet. Although her father, Robert, claims that he hates the circus that has developed around his daughter, he seems well practised at delivering his pitch. The fight for her life, the argument goes, is the fight for disabled people across America.

"People are being executed every day. I don't mean by the law. I mean executed by being starved to death - mainly the elderly, and people with Alzheimer's," says Robert. "There is a big, dark secret out there."

His other daughter, Suzanne Carr, who is five years younger than Terri, is more expansive. "This whole notion of doing away with a group of people who don't contribute to society or who can't feed themselves or who are expensive to maintain, that is bizarre, that is crazy," she says. "You might as well put down handicapped people."

It is difficult to know quite what Michael Schiavo makes of all this. As the Schindlers sit in their camper van discussing TV talkshow schedules, he has been all but silent, granting one interview in two years. And so, while one version of Terri's life - the one peddled by the Schindler family - remains well known, there is nothing forthcoming from the person who arguably knew her best: Michael, her husband of six years.

To hear the Schindler family tell it, the trajectory that led to Terri's tragic existence can be traced to her years as an awkward, overweight teenager in the suburbs of Philadelphia. Suzanne produces a sheaf of pictures of a chubby child and teenager, smiling at the camera from behind large spectacles. In the family's authorised version of events, the extra weight made Terri painfully shy.

She emerged from her shell only after slimming down in high school, and was still not entirely sure of herself when she started at a local college in the Philadelphia area. Within a few months, she had met Michael and fallen deeply in love - although perhaps not enough for Suzanne's standards. "He was the first guy to pay attention to her, the first guy to say, 'I love you', and so she married him," she says.

Nowadays, the Schindlers can barely avoid mentioning Michael's name without writhing in hatred. They have reinforced their accusations that he is neglecting Terri by suggesting that he tried to murder her, and that she was a victim of domestic violence.

The Schindlers' lurid accounts of abuse and neglect don't seem to tally with past events. In the early years of their marriage, Michael appeared to be on good terms with the Schindlers. The young couple lived in the Schindlers' condo after settling in Florida in the mid-80s. After Terri's accident, Michael and the Schindlers shared living quarters and the burden of care for Terri.

Those family bonds snapped in 1993 - the same year that a court awarded Terri $1m in a medical malpractice suit, and granted her husband authority over the money to use for her care. Each party now accuses the other of trying to get their hands on the funds. The cash question became even more urgent four years later, when Michael arrived at his momentous decision to end his wife's life. If Terri died, he would inherit the funds remaining in the malpractice suit; so long as she lived, the Schindlers had a hope of challenging his guardianship over Terri, and his control of the money.

By 1997, when Michael was set to remove the feeding tube for the first time, the stage was set for an epic confrontation. It is unclear what led to the change of heart, but Scott Schiavo, Michael's elder brother, says he arrived at the decision soon after the painful death of his own mother. "It sort of woke him up when he was watching my mother die," he says. "One day he just stood up and said: 'I can't do this any more. I can't do this to Terri.'"

Six years later, it has come down to this: videos of a stricken woman on the internet, accusations of murder, and lining up television interviews in a rented trailer.

Today, the Schindlers are spending much of the afternoon with a crew from the Christian Broadcasting Network, operated by the evangelist Pat Robertson. There is no question which side the CBN is on. "There is a spiritual battle going on. There is a pro-death movement out there right now, and it nearly killed Terri," says reporter Wendy Griffith. "From our perspective, it is a spiritual battle. It basically comes down to good and evil, life and death."

Outside the Christian right, such clarity over Terri's fate - or indeed the best recourse for any person condemned to live for years with virtually no brain function - is generally difficult to obtain.

But, given the vehemence with which he has been fighting to prolong Terri's life, it is a little surprising to learn that Robert decided to turn off the life-support system for his mother. She was 79 at the time, and had been ill with pneumonia for a week, when her kidneys gave out. "I can remember like yesterday the doctors said she had a good life. I asked, 'If you put her on a ventilator does she have a chance of surviving, of coming out of this thing?'" Robert says. "I was very angry with God because I didn't want to make those decisions."


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: applesandoranges; cultureofdeath; hysterria; oldarticle; schiavo; schindler; terrischiavo; trollalert
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To: GeekDejure

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21 posted on 03/27/2005 1:51:46 PM PST by GeekDejure ( LOL = Liberals Obey Lucifer !!!)
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To: Gondring

My wife has been an RN specializing in geriatric care for almost two decades, and she lost her father to renal cancer. Even a bystander like myself has soaked up enough knowledge during those years to be able to say that any comparison between the two cases in this piece is wilfully misleading at best, and maliciously false at worst.


22 posted on 03/27/2005 1:52:27 PM PST by niteowl77
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To: Calvinist_and_Hobbs

Yes, agreed. Tom DeLay is, too.

Now...black and white...
Either you're on the side of a person's right to self-determination, or you're on the side of tyrrany. I take the former.


23 posted on 03/27/2005 1:52:43 PM PST by Gondring (You don't know me...I'm in the WPPFF.)
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To: Calvinist_and_Hobbs
Exactly. Some of the pro-deathers think this is some kind of political game, so they resort to their age-old hardball tactics.

But this isn't about any one individual, really, except Terri Schindler Schiavo, and her right to life.

Yes, there is a political aspect to this, but mainly it is an ethical and moral issue. That it has become a political issue is perhaps an indictment of the failure of our system of government to protect the rights of innocents.

24 posted on 03/27/2005 1:52:48 PM PST by B Knotts
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To: Canard; Admin Moderator

Signed up today, eh? I'm guessing you won't be here tommorrow.


25 posted on 03/27/2005 1:53:51 PM PST by Godebert
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To: Gondring

Respiration is autonomic.
Eating is not.
To me that's a fundamentally important difference.


26 posted on 03/27/2005 1:53:57 PM PST by mcg1969
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To: edskid
[...]any comparison between the two cases in this piece is wilfully misleading at best, and maliciously false at worst.

Good point. I see no evidence in the article to say that Mr. Schindler did this with his mother's consent, unlike the Schiavo case.

27 posted on 03/27/2005 1:54:15 PM PST by Gondring (You don't know me...I'm in the WPPFF.)
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To: Gondring

So much wrong in this article. Where to start. Apples and oranges. Not that the author would ever see this or admit he's wrong.


28 posted on 03/27/2005 1:54:37 PM PST by mtbopfuyn
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To: Calvinist_and_Hobbs

so Mr. Schindler is a hypocrite


Oh BS, total crock of shit!!


29 posted on 03/27/2005 1:54:43 PM PST by Gimme
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To: Canard

Get lost.


30 posted on 03/27/2005 1:55:16 PM PST by cyborg (Sudanese refugee,"Mr.Schiavo I disagree with your opinion about not feeling pain when you starve.")
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To: Servant of the 9
How typically hypocritical

Hardly. There is a big difference between a feeding tube and a respirator. There isn't a single healthy person on this planet who requires help to breathe. But all of us at one point have required help to eat, even though we were 100% healthy.

Or to put it in a more technical frame, respiration is autonomic, feeding is not. (Digestion is---feeding is not).

So it's actually quite reasonable and straightforward to distinguish between his mother's and his daughter's cases.

31 posted on 03/27/2005 1:56:09 PM PST by mcg1969
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To: Servant of the 9

His mother was DYING, his daughter was not.


32 posted on 03/27/2005 1:57:42 PM PST by ValerieUSA
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To: sinkspur
So, only the law matters, eh? Morality and ethics are out the window.

Hint: the law is wrong. Food and water are not medicine. I agree with the pope on this. In an extraordinary circumstance, they may be withheld, if they are doing more harm than good. The nutritional maintenance of an otherwise healthy disabled woman in MCS or PVS is not such a circumstance.

33 posted on 03/27/2005 1:57:43 PM PST by B Knotts
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To: Gondring
And you are on the side of the post-6th Century Church, while I'm on the side of the early Christians. I'm on the side of those with respect for people, and you're on the side of people who want "life at all costs".

Perhaps post-6th century B.C. when even the smart pagans had no problem with exposing "defective" infants. Care to tell me which Fathers of the Church support withholding food and water from a person who is sick and not dying? (Hint: you won't find it in the New Testament, Polycarp, Irenaeus, Ignatius of Antioch, the Didache, Shepherd of Hermas or any other extant Christian writings. You MIGHT find it in Gnostic faux-Christian writings, and you will certainly find it among the 12th century Albigensians.) Don't pull out the calumny against early Christians without at least pretending to have a reference to something somewhere. A lot of us got snookered by that approach in the '60's and we won't be taken in twice by it. I am on the side of the Church and Christ is the same today, yesterday and before the sixth century.

By the way, I simply mentioned Western Civilization, why is it often the enemies of Terri Schiavo, who want to kill her, who insist on bringing religion into it? I can, and will if my religion is attacked, but I do not have to in order to defend her.
34 posted on 03/27/2005 1:58:32 PM PST by sittnick (There's no salvation in politics.)
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To: mcg1969

Now that is a rational point. Thank you.

Mind explaining how that is relevant, though, to denying a woman's right to refuse nutrition/hydration? To me, it simply highlights that a person who wanted not to respire couldn't do so willingly...however, hunger strikes are possible, and there's no way to know whether Mrs. Schiavo would eat or not...except via a legal mechanism called the courts. Who's to say that force-feeding her is not a terrible denial of her rights?


35 posted on 03/27/2005 1:58:34 PM PST by Gondring (You don't know me...I'm in the WPPFF.)
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To: silverleaf

"No rational poster here would attempt to compare Robert Schindler's decisions concerning the future quality and quantity of life available to his 41 year mentally incapacitated daughter with that of his 79 year old mother in terminal renal failure"

Oh, I would. It just goes to show that Mr. Schindler is full of it. It's time to pull the feeding tube out of this media circus.


36 posted on 03/27/2005 1:59:26 PM PST by New Orleans Slim
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To: Gondring

An overstatement. No two cases are the same.


37 posted on 03/27/2005 2:00:41 PM PST by RightWhale (50 trillion sovereign cells working together in relative harmony)
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To: sittnick

This is nothing new. These laws in many states date back to the Quinlan and Cruzan cases.


38 posted on 03/27/2005 2:00:56 PM PST by unbalanced but fair
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To: Calvinist_and_Hobbs
Either you are on the side of life or you are on the side of death. There is no gray middle ground.

Then put me down on the side of death, because the eventual aims of the right to lifers are just flat evil.

SO9

39 posted on 03/27/2005 2:00:59 PM PST by Servant of the 9 (Trust Me)
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To: mcg1969
So it's actually quite reasonable and straightforward to distinguish between his mother's and his daughter's cases.

Then why did he testify under oath that he would cut Terri's arms and legs off and put her on a respirator if necessary to keep her going?

So9

40 posted on 03/27/2005 2:02:45 PM PST by Servant of the 9 (Trust Me)
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