Ro_thunder, we're very different people then. I would consider you very selfish if that's what you would expect if you were 24 years old from the man you married.
Well, I am with you that I would want him to move on, but I would want him, make that, expect him to do the right thing and dissolve the marriage first.
IMO .. If one can not honor their vows .. especially before God
Then they should not get married