But my point is if he loved you, he wouldn't want you to give up your whole life. OK, let me put it this way. You're visiting somebody in the hospital, and you pass by a room where somebody is all contorted up, in a vegitative state. Would you say to your husband:
a)Honey, Don't ever let me live in that condition
b )Honey, If I ever get like that, please make sure you do everything in your power, whatever the cost to you and our family,financially and emotionally, to keep me in that vegitative state no matter how long it takes. I want you to come and sit by my side every day and go home alone every night.
Which one would you pick, Mo1?
See Hildy, here's the problem - Michael HAS done everything in his power to keep her in THAT STATE. However, there were and ARE options to help her GET BETTER. That's the key, he's not TRYING to help her get better, and actually trying to make her worse.
And frankly, if I was in that state, I would expect my wife to honor her commitment to me, made before GOD. Just as I would honor that commitment to her, made before GOD.
Ro_thunder, we're very different people then. I would consider you very selfish if that's what you would expect if you were 24 years old from the man you married.
That is blatantly false and I will not let you get away with it. Have you read Wolfson's report to Jeb Bush about this whole situation. It's 38 pages, it gives the history, what was been done, the timeline etc. It's interesting and informative and written in a very straightforward, sensitive manner. I suggest you read it and then we'll talk again. Because as long as you twist the facts, I can't debate it. I'm saying that respectfully, I'm not trying to be confrontational about it. If you need a link, please let me know or I can email you the .pdf and that offer goes to anyone who really, once and for all, want to know the facts of this case.
Ro_Thunder
You go, guy!