This Terri story has allowed me to relive my own mother's death almost eight years ago. She had a rapidly growing brain tumor, emphysema, and developed sepsis. We knew she was going to die, I just didn't know how quickly. But my mom and I discussed her wishes, and she was very clear that she did not want the inevitable prolonged. She did not want extraordinary measures and asked for a DNR. When her body began shutting down, and she was pretty much unconscious and slipping away, I had to make the decision to stop her IV fluids. It was SOOO hard, but I took comfort in knowing it was what she wanted. The only thing I asked was that she be kept comfortable. That decision was on a Tuesday. That Saturday night, after visiting her, I prayed the most sincere, humble and honest prayer that God take her home and relieve her pain.
She died the next day. It was one of the most difficult things I've ever had to experience in my life. But I take comfort knowing that I followed my mom's wishes, and that God does listen to prayers.