Posted on 03/06/2005 8:52:39 AM PST by nuconvert
Yeah, it's a clever analogy; a cute play with words.
We're hampster dancing with the pellets of companionship inside the cage. Yet the entity supplying them is outside; beyond that cage door that is being closed.
You're right, it is very funny.
My opinion a MAN truly needs to be married more than a woman especially if a man has been married to a woman who he feels very sexually attracted to, someone who does his laundry cooks his meals, handles the mundane household tasks and hangs out with him like a "Bud" when that woman is gone those men are usually devastated in a pretty bad way.
WOW..Pretty narley article!
You can't believe that holds true for all women in America...
Why no. My mother is an American woman.
But as for the rest of them...
;-)
Really, this mostly applies to Liberal American women, but even if things go bad with a Republican woman, the American male should expect no mercy.
Well I have been told at points in my life I can be a Man's Greatest Dream and Nightmare at the same time LOL...
People are People and there moods are dependant on what's going on that paticular day..
But I agree some women are more 'High Maintenance" than others
Yes. I argued with Darren Blacksmith about generalizing in his column. But maybe it's more effective and gets more attention to generalize after all. And it's easy enough to understand where he was coming from.
Marriage: Just Say No
Darren Blacksmith
http://mensnewsdaily.com/archive/a-b/blacksmith/03/blacksmith092803.htm
Marriage means no more sampling of the candy! :-)
,,, Gary knew in the back of his mind that something didn't stack up quite right. When pushed to the brink, she retreated and behaved inappropriately with chocolate. Well done Gary!
They think they have to act like guys... dressing like them, cussing like them and acting like they are tough. When you watch American films, you see barbie-chicks karate kicking guys in the face, and many American women truly believe that some karate lessons could enable them to even accomplish this impossible feat. Our popular culture celebrates male-bashing - even television commercials show clever housewives showing up their idiot husbands.
As a conservative, I'm sure that you are not one of these types. The ones I find the most despicable are the vegetarian PETA types. Just look at all the miserable high maintenance single career women in New York City - who on earth would want to spend the rest of their lives with such shrews? They should all settle for lesbian relationships and give us all a break.
,,, you have some idea of what you're competing with now.
All the things you mentioned come bundled into a relationship and don't require the context of a marriage. In fact, the sex and household chores can be purchased as a commodity (at a far less dear monetary/emotional toll than comes at a divorce). The "bud" part is a bit outside that realm, but I can't imagine anyone standing at an alter and listening to:
"Will you take missyme to be your lawfully wedded 'Bud'?"
There's something in human relationships that most people seem to think can only be achieved via marriage (I wish I knew what it was because I've met so many people who feel they can't be complete until they are married). I understand the religious connotation to the ceremony but most people don't really take that seriously. If they did there wouldn't be so many divorces (you don't screw up on the committments you make to the omnipotent - results in a big penalty).
I think it was Simone de Beauvier that said men avoid marriage early in life but desperately seek it late in life; probably based on her experience with Satre and his late-life proposal; I think she also implied that the time scale was flipped for women, wanting marriage early in life and avoiding it late in life - but don't quote me on it).
The problem is many people still do..
(That is sample the candy)!
That's too old-fashioned.
Will you take missyme to be your lawfully wedded 'Bud'?"
That's funny!
I am saying :that if you are a married couple with no children and you have nothing in common with your spouse as "Buds" the relationship will become Stagnant and BORING!
You have to have common interests if you refuse to do the things either your husband or wife would like to do then eventually they will find someone who does...
Would it be possible, in lieu of a prenup which may do little to the settlement, to sign a contract that says a majority of the guest list of the wedding must agree to any divorce settlement?
Maybe that's how it is today in 2005, when my girlfriends were single in there twenty's (40 to 45 now) the men were pretty ruthless the ball was definetly in there court with most women.
Pre-nups are ridiculous...
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