Are you saying, then, that this girl's problem can be surgically corrected?
This might be naive, but I often wondered: Assuming, for example, that she had been overexposed to androgens in utero, might an injection (or whatever treatment) of estrogen help "feminize" the brain? That and maybe some kind of cognitive/behavioral therapy?
Maybe if it were done at the right age, given the intesex disorder.
Read this in its entirety, Syndromes of Abnormal Sex Differentiation, and you tell me? The article doesn't account or expand on any of the reasons so you are welcome to your conjecture.