So true. When my eldest was an infant her father died. I dated exactly 3 men in the 15 years after that. All 3 failed to respect the boundaries. One got obsessed with her when she was ten and is still on-and-off stalking her, 17 years later.
Never, never, never trust anybody with your children.
Wow, how scary. I'm very sorry about that. Thanks for sharing your incredibly painful experience to lend credence to my point, or Dr. Laura's point as it were.