So since Christians appear to be losing the culture war, you'd prefer for your beliefs to be enforced by the government at gunpoint?
This is the goal.
I believe that the will of people should be expressed through their elected representatives. I believe that their elected representatives should heed the will of their constituents, and pass legislation reflecting their desires.
I also believe that constitutional laws be enforced at gunpoint, if necessary. What, do you prefer "pretty please with sugar on top"? Do you think that laws are suggestions? Or that they're optional? That you, personally, decide which ones you'll obey, and which ones you won't?
Grow up.