As for the two sexes developing the same time and being able to reproduce to a higher level-yea right!
"Still did not answer the question of where the material came for the Big Bang came from"
I think the answer for that would have to be God. The Big Bang Theory doesn't explain away God. Actually, there's enough hocus-pocus going on as you approach the beginning of the "explosion" to make you think there is a God. The part I remember from the armchair guide to the Big Bang that I read a long time ago was that "physics breaks down". That meant that, for example, during specific millionths of a second after the explosion, the speed of light was faster, the laws of motion hadn't been fully formed, etc. In fact, they don't know what was going on because, as mentioned, the rules went away.
Sexes and evolution: I'm less sceptical of this than you are, but there's been enough disk space wasted on this topic on FR than I'd care to contribute to :) We dissagree, no harm done. And for all I know, you might be right in your beliefs and I might be totally wrong - I can't prove it, I just believe it.