I suppose that if the little girls stay in China or Russia long enough, they may get a sugar daddy.
All it tells me is that the woman in question hasn't found the right man to share her life with at this point in time. That doesn't mean she can't be a good mother if she has the finances and the network of support (i.e., family and trusted friends) to parent.
You really post alot of anger in your responses targeting single, 30-something women. They are what you seem to have issue with...not fatherless adoptees.
When the alternative is languishing in a Chinese orphanage? Absolutely. You're approaching this as if a single mom adopting a Chinese child prevents a married couple from adopting. That's not the case. The supply of orphan Chinese children is much higher than the demand.
STUDY after STUDY after STUDY tells you that girls, in particular, need a FATHER in their life.
Sure. Two parents is better than one parent, but one parent is better than no parents.
Doesn't it tell you something when a woman CAN'T find anyone who wants to marry her? NO ONE? I doubt that she'd make a "good mother" when what is STILL driving her is TOTAL SELFISHNESS
Again, what is better for one of these Chinese kids, living with a "selfish" American mom or spending their life in a Chinese orphanage followed by a life on the streets?
Just because these little girls aren't wanted by their biological mothers ... doesn't mean they aren't important and should automatically get screwed out of a Dad that SHE NEEDS in her life.
Again, the supply of Chinese kids is much greater than the demand. If you banned single women from adopting Chinese kids, that just means more Chinese kids will end up languishing in orphanages.
Heartless people. Adoption bigotry at it's worst with false scenarios to try and make it the ONLY choice.
What other alternatives are there? Being adopted by a single woman might not be ideal, but it's better than the alternatives.