Bud, I spent close to twenty years living that hell.
Fifteen years later, I'm here to tell you there is life after that slow death.
All the best! D1
"Bud, I spent close to twenty years living that hell."
We are surrounded by failed marriages. I'm single and never been married, and I love my freedom. I get lonely--and don't believe in shacking up, not that I don't think about it--but that's the price of the freedom. Like I read somewhere: "Freedom means no home, Home means no freedom"...or at least not the kind of freedom the wanderer has.
Are you completely burned against marriage or do you see any hope there for yourself? I worry because so many marriages are failing, and I do wonder if singleness is the better option given these times of all the little gods and goddesses running around thinking they deserve to have the best of everything (i.e. full of pride, which is fatal to a marriage).