There's a line from the movie "Staying Alive" that you remind me of. A woman looks at Tony and says, "Guys like you aren't relationships. They're exercise."
Shalom.
I don't personally feel that way and I'll give you a quick anecdote that I think proves it. I attended a friend's bachelor party. We're not a wild crowd and I was married at the time so I didn't expect to much wild to happen (the bachelor party I arranged for another friend included a trip to a comedy club--that was it) but the friend's brother got a stripper. Without going into too many details (they really aren't that interesting), the two women were almost raped at the bachelor party they were at before the one for my friend. One eventually did her thing because we were a nice enough group (none of my friends would have demanded anything from them). I was the one who cared enough at the end of the night to lead them in my car to the highway so they could get home. In fact, it's because I can't help but thinking of strippers as anything but human beings -- daughters, sisters, mothers -- that I get little-to-no enjoyment out of strippers.
And, yes, I find the things that other say about women embarassing. In fact, I find men talking about their wives particularly distasteful. One day, a friend caught his wife talking to another friend's wife about their sex life and he confronted them. They replied, "Well you men talk about this stuff behind our backs!" He repliled, "No we don't!" My friends don't, which is why they are my friends, but plenty of other men that I've run into at work and elsewhere sure do.
Actually, thinking about this, I think I missed a category or two. A woman can also be an object of pity or a menace. I think that pretty much covers how most people view sex toys women. They are either sub-human entertainment, an object of pity, or a menace to society and treat to morality.