"For a "followerofchrist" you seem to have a strange bias against "fundamentalists".
I do. I believe many focus on who they can hate, rather than who they can love and those they can judge, rather than those they can teach.
"Have you ever stopped to consider the folks you are accusing are raising their kids in a godly way, but the kids are naturally rotten all on their own, and doing right by these kids won't make them *be* right? "
Yes I have considered this, but being forceful and totalitarian does not help already-problem children.
Go and tend your own garden, followerofchrist.
Then I do not believe you are a follower of Christ. Because your post shows no love for the Church.