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To: Salvation
Along with this, many Americans have been imbued with the idea that to create an "authentic self" complete autonomy is needed in beliefs, opinions and choices in life. Thus, teaching children how to behave becomes forbidden and parents are transformed from figures of authority "into facilitators, cheerfully escorting the child's own unique self into maturity.

This is quite possibly the stupidest "theory" about raising children I have ever seen. Who thinks up this nonsense? My children are quite welcome to become their "own unique self" when they're old enough to be on their own. Until then, they will be given moral guidance and shared family values. We're a one income family in a 2 income world and we struggled for most of those years. There were times when my husband would work a second job so I could be with our boys. Now that they're older (one is just out of the Coast Guard and the other just starting at the local community college), both of them say having me home was more important than the stuff their friends got (even if they didn't think they felt that way at the time).

It's interesting, though that as the spoiled boomers children are having children, there's almost a reverse exodus back into the home. They won't regret it as the perks are priceless...you just can't get open-mouthed jelly-kisses in the secretarial pool (okay, maybe you can in this day and age).

10 posted on 02/11/2005 10:47:24 PM PST by gardencatz (Cindie)
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To: gardencatz

"a part-time research fellow". Swell. Well then, it's gotta be true. Why have we been so blind?


13 posted on 02/11/2005 10:56:42 PM PST by CBart95
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To: gardencatz

**It's interesting, though that as the spoiled boomers children are having children, there's almost a reverse exodus back into the home. They won't regret it as the perks are priceless...you just can't get open-mouthed jelly-kisses in the secretarial pool **

Love that word picture!

One of my daughters and one daughter-in-law stay home with their children. I keep telling them I am so proud of them.


60 posted on 02/12/2005 10:06:11 AM PST by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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