Yeah my twins are nine. I'm not sure where exactly the double standard comes in -- but male or female an adult with a child is wrong. At 15 I *thought* I knew it all. At 32, looking back, that man should be rotting in a jail cell somewhere.
I'd . . . I dunno. . but something to a 26 year old who touched my 15 year olds. Or my husband would. Adults have no business playing with children. It takes manipulation and having that teenager lie to pull it off.
BTDT, and I wish I could change it.
my son is 13 and if something like this happened to him, i would be the one doing the dismembering of the perp, before my husband would even have a chance to do anything. i don't see the need for a double standard based on the sex of the victim, regardless of the personal male freeper accounts of not being scarred by the experience. i think it isn't possible to tell exactly what sort of emotional impact it has had. i mean you seem ok now, but clearly it would have been MUCH MUCH MUCH better had you not had that experience at that age with someone that much older.