I have known very few gals who never "had" a much older man fwiw
I was 15. Lost mine to a 26 year old man. Where should he be? Hm?
OMG, my daughter is 16 and the thought of her with a 26 yo man makes my blood run cold. and i KNOW my husband would be in jail and the man would be an ex-26yo man....
He'd be at the bottom of the Hudson River with some concrete shoes if it was me.
I have known very few gals who never "had" a much older man fwiw
"I was 15. Lost mine to a 26 year old man. Where should he be? Hm?"
Until graduate school, I thought I wanted to be a headshrinker. When I started to recover from liberalism and looked at the other shrinkers, and when I discovered that the "cure" rate from headshrinking is the same as the rate of spontaneous remission, I changed my mind. However, my interest in people has never flagged.
I don't know if you want to talk about it or not, and my interest is intellectual and not prurient, but I'd really like to know what adverse effects you suffered as a result of your experience.