I have known very few gals who never "had" a much older man fwiw
It seems like many women are taken in by an older man at some point. Evil and manipulative men! *laughs* I'm teasing, but you know what I mean.
My biggest issue is that teenagers need to BE teenagers. It's one thing for a teen to be sexually involved with another teenager. It's another thing for an experienced adult (note I don't say legal -- 18 year olds may be adults but so many are still SO young at the same time) to take advantage of a "child."
Pammy's husband should thank his lucky stars he didn't marry that other teacher-child molester named Pam - Pamela Smart.