of course not, Cy.
look, fact:
when I was 13 (and fully pubescent) I had an English teacher who was the cat's meow.
I mean - she was flat-out drop-dead gorgeous, nice as all get-out, smelled great, cared, good sense of humor, the whole nine yards.
I desired her, in an unformed, clueless way.
Nothing ever happened, no one ever tried to make anything happen.
But I assure you I wanted something to happen.
That was how I was as a 13 year old boy.
I remember it quite clearly.
As a 35 year old man, I can look at such a scenario and understand that this is not something that should be done. But I still recall my boyhood and know it would not have HARMED me.
I would wager that a fair number of men have had a grossly similar life-history in this respect.
AND THERE IS NO REASON FOR US TO APOLOGIZE ABOUT IT.
Did I say I was looking for you to apologize? I don't recall. If it's not good for girls it's not good for boys and that's what I have to say about it. If my stance offends you, well that's just too bad.
Now a days there are judges who would make a child of 13 pay for the rest of his life for such a thing.
As a person I understand human sexuality-as a mother I don't want that to happen to my sons.
The truth is there is more at stake for males than females if a female gets pregnant from a fling.
And women who have sexual relationships with very young boys are not trustworthy.
Males need to be careful because an untrustworhty psychopath make make for a good fling- but I doubt many want to spend the rest of their lives dealing with her out of the bedroom.