She looks very controlling in that photo. A B12 shot probably wouldn't hurt either.
Yes, she looks about as warm and cuddly as a medusa. Don't know about the B12.
But she's so obviously hurting in some of the other columns she's written, I can't get enthusiastic about beating up on her. Sure, she invites it, but I'd just as soon let her crawl away and find some therapy. Starting, as you suggest, with her use of categories. And vitamins. Wish I had a wand, to give her a Bonnie Raitt transplant. It'd do wonders for her.