There may be particular issues in certain places, but the "good will" efforts are much more than you apparently know of.
I have pictures, stories, and even forwarded E-mails from Iraqi civilians which are in conflict with any notion that "good will" is not being applied over there.
Quite true. But my friend told me of several attempts to assist locals (in this case an orphanage) that were nixed by state department personnel who were not there.