They committed self murder and all murderers go to hell. They are just starting their God given term of eternity in hell. God forgives the repentent but the Bible says (somewhere) "It is appointed unto man but once to die, and then the judgement." They died and then faced judgement. All opportunity to seek God's forgiveness is here-and-now, not hereafter.
And God does say he hates several things:
Proverbs 6
16 There are six things the LORD hates, seven that are detestable to him: 17 haughty eyes,a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, 18 a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, 19 a false witness who pours out lies and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers.
God also says he hates divorce. It is an error to think that God doesn't hate.
There is nothing in the Bible which says God hates divorce.
Talk about extrapolation from meager sources.
"They committed self murder and all murderers go to hell. They are just starting their God given term of eternity in hell. God forgives the repentent..."
How do we know this couple didn't pray and ask God's forgiveness before they died?