So if I understand your message correctly, you and your spouse make your personal intimacy decisions based upon what happens to same-sex couples?
Your libido is diminished when you read or hear about "benefits" being granted to "homosexual couples" and your "motivation" to have children is reduced because, in your private moments of passion with your spouse, you whisper to each other about gay lifestyle as you are copulating---and that reduces your motivation?
You are a sicko, maybe time for a ZOT!!
WHAT IS IT WITH YOU PEOPLE AND YOUR OBSESSION WITH SEX AND LIBIDO. THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT..
DUH