I congratulate you on finding the relationship that suits you...However there are some disturbing notes in your response - homosexual males refer to "straight" (normal) couples as "breeders". Odd parallel, isn't it?
Those of us that prefer to be the leaders in our relationship aren't trying force our partners to be "squaws" but we aren't looking for Mommy either. I believe that a normal, secure, and mature man doesn't endanger the identity or accomplishments of his wife, but serves as that reliable foundation of the relationship between the two. Somebody always has to lead in a relationship - and sometimes each have their own areas within the relationship where they are the leaders - however, when it's a serious situation, the normal position is that the male leads.
Other people may be thoroughly suited for a "Maggie and Jiggs" sort of relationship; fine, enjoy - I just know for sure I'm not.
Did you get permission before you sent your response?
Of course I did! You think I'm crazy or something?