[F16Fighter]

"The Fetching Mrs. Poohbah is quite passionate, but she also has an understanding of what she can and can't change."

Hear ya...(IOW, that toilet seat is staying up, the master bedroom will NOT be painted mauve, and no, I will NOT "watch Oprah" with you....)

[Poohbah]

She can deal with a toilet seat (she merely expects me to do likewise), we agreed on the color of the house interior (I suggested white, and she said, "Good, it goes with everything"), and she absolutely refuses to watch television, period.