This should serve as a warning to all of us. People start to feel close to people in groups online and let their guard down. Be careful, people. If this woman had insisted that she will only see this woman with her husband present, this tragedy would not have happened.
You are so right. The day the weird post(referenced in an earlier post) to me happened, I was planning to go to a Kerry rally. I did not go because my husband could not go with me. It made me think a lot about how easy it would be to go through someone's posting history and find out all kinds of things about them.
I don't disagree w/you about the safety factor. However, these 2 women knew eachother through their group and through dog shows for OVER ONE YEAR. Bobbie knew Lisa, Bobbie did NOT know Darlene. Lisa 'baited' her....once Lisa showed at her home Bobbie didn't hesitate to open the door to her....but makes you wonder why she didn't question why Lisa was there when she clearly expected Darlene. Sadly, there are only 2 people that know what exactly transpired that day, and one is dead.
Clearly people should be cautious, not just w/online dealings but w/anyone that is let into your home. Once a person is in your home..................