I'll save you some time. Unless you have actually been in that situation, you have no business judging that Lieutenant's life and death decision.
Likewise, unless you have become pregnant in a situation where your life would be threatened by giving birth, you have no business judging that extremely difficult and personal decision. Just as in the example above, a very hard value judgment has to be made by the appropriate person and you are not that person.
Your condemnation of abortion decisions seems to be absolute with no exceptions. You seem to think you are more qualified to make decisions about other people's lives than they are. You may be correct about most abortions but you are incorrect about your authority to judge and make those decisions for other people. If you want to help people make the correct decision, you don't take away their freedom and responsibility to make that decision. You try to give them loving advice not superior condemnation.