Then again you have situations like mine. Where my older brother was neglected by my dad and ended up sexually diseased (homosexual), while I got dads attention and turned out fine.
It is somewhat of a fallacy to say that homosexuality is a choice. While participating in homosexual behavior is entirely a choice, the desire to participate in that behavior is the result of a mental disease brought about by trauma.
The vast majority of (male) sodomites were either sexually or mentally abused or had an absent or insufficeinet relationship with their father or were subject to relentless teasing by their peers during the formative years.
The end result is a mentally diseased (wounded) person thinking that they desire same-sex sex when really they just desire a normal life
What you said - I agree.